I loved him for THAT. It is also considered disrespectful to others, as they may be uncomfortable because of your open displays. This also means giving her something specific to do. If you decide to stay.
I sacrificed my career not in medicine but I have advanced degrees in my profession because I felt so lucky to be able to be at home raising my two wonderful sons. You are a good person. None felt right, ever. All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity.
Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. No doubt that all rightetous persons will accept Christ but not everyone that dies will be righteous. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. Props to people who do. Good luck to you and your boyfriend. Their job is HARD. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. I don't mean to be rude, but she's not gonna give up her "nonsense".
If you go to mormonthink. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved. He has no vices, is the happiest person I know, is a healthy role model of manhood for my teen daughter and loves me to the depth of his soul. The important thing is that you are getting to know one another, not that you are always doing fancy things. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed.