We play doctor - then she leaves. Not one little bit. It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people. Know that you are playing a game aka dating mormon girls that has low odds of success. I've done the pre-med, med school, residency, etc.
I went back to school and received a Master's degree from a prestigious university Driving more than an hour each way 6 days a week to so; doing several excavation seasons and tons of research in order to achieve a cherished goal that had been denied me as a young woman. She never mentioned TSCC. We lived about miles apart for the first 2 years.
All people see is the money and that's it. Joanna has written a good answer here. Sometimes I think he is the man who shouldn't have had a family but just a career too late for that now though.
It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. Fell in love with his passion for his love for neurology. Your relationship with your family will be healed, and so will you. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. I really don't know how will I cope up with every matter without him by my side in this new road ahead of me. In any case; I can assure you from your post that he doesn't sound like he's being selfish; the behavior does sound like its residency related and not selfishness related. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. We met at home just before he went back to school and even though we only had a week together, it was whirlwind and we already spoke of marriage and kids.