I don't think we could have a real conversation about those points either. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. Don't think your life is going to be all rainbows and great lifestyles. It hurts me the most when my kids ask me why they haven't see daddy in days. Those will make her think. Props to your sister. If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective. Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more.
It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. If I wasn't such a fighter and survivor I would have given up on this marriage Sitting here in the afternoon, I happened to google 'being a doctors wife' because it's a lonely day and I wanted to see if its hard for others, too. I believe when you die, you die, and you live on in memories and hearts. We learn sooooooo much from each other. When my nomo husband does go to church we discuss the talks. I won't break his heart not after all the faith he has in me.
Then I discovered that Mormons were a welcome exception to the degeneracy that pervades American women. However, a few months before her exams she suddenly said that she didn't think we were right for each other and broke up with me. Point is, I can push myself to my extreme physical ends and he has barely broken a sweat. Either it's enough for you - or it's not. Maybe it won't be a big deal. And if he loves you as much as you love him.
Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. Please submit content that is relevant to our experiences as women, for women, or about women. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. The Mormon girl has the light of Christ shining through her, and you were drawn in. I adore the show New Normal and one of my favorite episodes is when Bryan decides to go back to church and the Father is so cool with him. Every bishop, new set of missionaries, home teacher, etc. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. But I do want to be with him.