I'm still holding on and willing to wait for "Better days" with him after his residency. I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. Is forever possible with a doctor??. Log in without password NEW. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself. I am an MD studying for my usmle step2.
Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. Better to now what you're going into in a relationship with a doctor or would-be-doctor. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. And his wife is angry and unappreciative and has no idea how difficult his profession is.
If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. But no one can move on to one of the 3 Kingdoms until they accept Christ and totally repent. After moving in with him it has become painfully obvious I have a lot of personal improvements to make to meet his minimum expectations as a wife and mother. Cousin the same age who just got married has known her husband 6 months. I will keep reading, but it looks like most of the stuff about racism and polygamy has been "adequately" explained away by updates to LDS.
For now, again, don't expect a decade long relationship. The only thing I can say is good luck to all. Would love to join. And their feelings about your marriage are their businessвnot yours. Within a cultural group marriage is hard. Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. I've done the pre-med, med school, residency, etc.