He had the night shift last night so today was his day off and he also has research to do. Yes, because that is generally what is best. If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity.
If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself. While my husband is not a doctor he does have a job that requires very odd hours a-typical of the American and works all holidays. I can pray for and with my youngest daughter and bless her thru prayer. I found that it worked just as well. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the other ones out there. Honestly i love my baby future doctor honestly i would never leave her, but im scared of not knowing how to deal with all situations and emotions by myself, and this have already began, that means evrytime is going to be worse and ill got to be more strong.
And their feelings about your marriage are their businessвnot yours. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day. I have suggested a date night just for us but, he doesn't want a scheduled night for dates. I wouldnt encourage my kids to date a mormon.
What can you expect. Oh well, I'll just pretend she's not mormon and see what happens. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot.