When I complain that I spent two days without seeing him and when he arrives home just keeps on answering his phone as if he was at work The other day a colleague called just to complain about a patient of theirs at 8: These people have no sense of privacy. Yes, do sever the relationship. I love this post and this perspective. When I taught GD we discussd the lessons. After 21 years and an approaching empty nest, my husband has taken a new mistress His new, or rather, "renovated" mistress is physical activity. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for. I also think that if marriage outside the covenant is a sin, it is not so grave as to be unforgivable.
Whatever you do, just don't let on to your child ren that you and their father are in disagreement. Are they a functioning member in society. No one appreciates how demanding it is unless they have lived it, many friends over the years said to me "lucky you, you are married to a Doctor. So now I am here and I have made a go of it for a year, found a new job, made new friends, tried to grow to like a culture that is foreign to me.
I am so happy I found this blog. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face. Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve.
Best wishes in whatever you decide. Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times. Honestly, he probably is giving you as much of his free time as he can,and can't give you any more. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. Because Utah mormons are waayyy different than mormons everywhere else.