That was literally over years ago. Why not rather find yourself a rich sugardaddy and leave the docs alone. I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her. We had a long distant relationship for 3 years. But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face. He went out and purchased a promise ring, but was holding off on giving it to me. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. In response to your comment about being with that creative director think all relationships have problems.
Her goal is to make you mormon. I can't emphasize this strongly enough. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised.
My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. Their thinking is something like this. We all know that. But I was unusual in that I never really wanted to convert my husband I was worried I'd have to divorce him if he turned true Mormon and he didn't need me to believe way he does. It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people. But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either. I can honestly say we have grown apart thru the years. If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. If you are feeling neglected, then tell him so. And can you talk about hard things together.
But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face. It's in the Mormon DNA. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom. This also means giving her something specific to do. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. What is it like to become a doctor in your country. What do you think is a reasonable expectation for how much time you will spend together, how often you will talk, etc. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Why would you behave any different now. I never give him shit for it.