Plan on rolling your eyes A LOT at family get torturers together. You can feel it in your bones. As such, it tends to attract the young and insecure. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. I'll paste a URL with links to all of them at the end of this message. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. I hope to be able to love nurses as I once did for many years. Especially if they're devote enough to expect you to marry in heaven, huge implications with that one. She is going to dump you.
Be specific every time you ask. It is tempting for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical girls. Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so. What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her.
Mormon chicks have way damaged views on human intimacy. It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. It sounds like you two haven't gotten exceptionally close and that it wouldn't be too hard on either of you to jump ship and move on. Warnings While the LDS Church accepts that those who feel attraction to members of their own sex can be Mormons, it discourages acting on those feelings. Here is a list of reasons I feel apply to my situation в some of them in retrospect:.
It's really cool to be able to connect with someone who shares all of those things with me. It has been closed. April 05, There are ways to avoid blue balls ya know. First, let's start with a short musical introduction on what it's like to be a True Believing Mormon dude. II do wish you luck. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. And I don't mean my good friend Satan. We did things differently this time around, especially now with some maturity and perspective.