Everyone seems to be supporting the idea that he is just too busy, but the truth is we over the internet can't judge his intent. I am the bitch who doesn't understand anything. On top of their day job, they also have to read volumes upon volumes of medical journals to keep up with their profession. Such beliefs make the girls confident about being women.
We can't tell you that. The religious differences between you two are a deal-breaking fault. Don't try to fill the silence and rush to say something like "but I know you are super busy. But my choice seems to be build a life so I am not lonely all the time or stay at home waiting for him to have time for me. Well, you won't be getting into anything soon. Never mind the paycheck because I even earn more than him. Stick around on this sub. I married my husband 11 years ago, when he was an undergrad student. To sum up, they're incapable of loving anyone but themselves and the thought of a marriage counselor freaks them out as this would mean confronting their ultimate excuse of "I'm too busy". It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever.
After my divorce I dated Mormon men в disastrous. Tears in my eyes after reading this. And if he loves you as much as you love him. Word to the wise, wait a day or two.
And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. If he's in year 1 of the residency, he's got probably years left finishing residency then fellowship. Follow your heart and live life with no regrets. I have found strength I never knew I had but if I knew then what I know now, I might have made a different decision. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. Imagine if all the men in the world weighed over pounds and acted like slobs. I can only hope that my ex realizes and learns from the mistake he made in letting me go.