Is this a red flag or are we both just being stubborn. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. Really, I'm interested in this too. If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward. Reading all your comments makes me feel sometimes uplifted, other times scared as hell. If you can, do it now. My husband's simply daily things, like grocery shopping, cooking, waking up with me to make coffee in the morning-are far from unnoticed. I'm not going to live my life in regret I know it sounds terrible but you gotta do what you gotta do. Iam 24, my bf going to move to Troy NY for his master he ask me to move with him, I want to but Iam afraid we will never get married.
Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. My surgeon husband of 12 years just made himself a "free agent" when he cheated on me and our three kids with a gal 12 years his junior. Money is not everything although the ex certainly has her share. She doesn't want to marry you. During "Netflix and chill" the other night, I noticed there was a documentary about mormons. Take the crazy and add a ton of even crazier shit on on top and Your girlfriend literally believes in a book of scripture that was produced from a rock in Josephs Hat. You need to repent and change. I explained to her that from my perspective, if a religious person does something good, you can't trust them because they're doing it for the wrong reasons: When an atheist does something good, you know they're not doing it for any reason other than to help someone else. My fiance and I are both becoming doctors, but he is becoming an Orthopedic surgeon and I am becoming a Psychiatrist. The issue is that we have really spectacular sex that will often last for hours including foreplay haha, not all PIV, thank God.
We strive to improve each other. I've been dating my girl for 5 years and we have just broke up because she told me she likes someone else but she say she still loves me I have been married for 8 months, my husband is starting his training in orthopaedics Never imagined my life will be like this The 3 years we were together prior marriage when he was an intern were not like this at all I read all the comments and I can see there no much hope for things to improve Constant absences, constants arguments, I have to make myself available when he is available, I am an architect, I have a demanding job myself, but still beings doctor seems to be a lot more important than my career. Totally hated it too. I'd suggest the essays.
In the meantime, she will probably view you as being less than a Mormon man who is a faithful priesthood holder. Life is too short. Just going to jump in and then jump out I remember how idealistic I was back then, but here's reality: You will be without him most of the time. He expects perfect children who ,"will all become doctors.