There are times where u will go to events, parties And even spending holidays without him. Listen to the still small voiceв. That will most likely be the deal breaker for her.
If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. I am hopeful and do feel some healing. No walking your daughter down the aisle, no giving your daughter away at the alter, nothing but you standing outside the temple waiting till it's over. It is soooo difficult to cope.
I clearly stated twice that I severed things with the girl. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. I don't care about the money, I have suggested him to downsize if needed for him to work less. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist.
Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. This lack of inclusion within the general society makes them socially awkward, especially around men. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined.