If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. Build a life of your own but, make them your priority. Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC.
Do you drink alcohol. Now those are not the problems in my head anymore, whats in my head is how arewe goin to deal with this, ive told her sometimes u wont have anytime for me nor for your kids if we decide to have kids you wont be at the holidays nothing like that and she is always tryin to see everything positive and tells me dont worry ill schedule myself, and im like baby you will not be able to schedule urself your life would be in a hospital. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. I tried telling him that I know myself enough that I would not be happy in this kind of relationship. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling. I mean, I get where it comes from but it's so ridiculous. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. I had to lobby and cry alot so I could bring my dog up, I am not sure how that will go because dogs have hair, need to go out, and the house might get messed up.
If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that. He sealed my husband and I on our wedding day. There are other ways. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. It is almost impossible for me to hold my tears back. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband.
For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. That sentence strikes me as rather bizarre--it seems to be alluding to a causal link between academics and being "emotionally immature," as you put it. My spouse really is the most important and I would be nothing without them. But our marriage is strong, and our children are good people. He's currently doing emergency medicine and about to start residency. I wana get married but im thinkin wether it wud be wise to get married after i finish studyin med. Expect her to either write you off during her mission or pressure you to show interest in the church. I am becoming more lonely now than before.