Yes, thank you for your support Autumn. She might be everything you want, but in her eyes you are not what she has been dreaming of her whole life. Is it wrong that I feel guilty?. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon.
Thank you for pointing this out. Warnings While the LDS Church accepts that those who feel attraction to members of their own sex can be Mormons, it discourages acting on those feelings. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. Otherwise you're just denying them eternal salvation in their eyes. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. If it were me, I would be flattered they had that much time to spend on me.
I am married to an interventional cardiologist. If so, then step away from the internet and go look him in the eyes and take his hands and start asking him all the questions you asked me. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I. Who knows, maybe a little lighthearted texting is just the 5 minute break he needs. I think my husband would do okay with the loneliness - just like I do. As an atheist with Buddhist undertones who married a non-practicing, god-believing Mormon at the height of his questioning, I find this so interesting to me. No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question.
April 05, There are ways to avoid blue balls ya know. He totally blew me off and said "blah blah blah" and it was so early in our relationship that I was taken aback and didn't push the issue then and there. I've been married over 4 years to a 1st year GI fellow.