If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. He knows that is a possibility. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with. Is there even any sex at all in this fantasy.
In her mind if you never accept the gospel you are denying her eternal exaltation as a God. I had this issue with my husband and I had to straight out tell him what I needed because he had no clue. Hopefully she could realize if she was born into one of these cults that also distrust apostates she probably wouldn't see through them either. Life After Mormonism Chat. If this happens, it might click something in her mind that says that what she experienced was pleasurable and she would like to have it again. The woman's role is to grow up, marry a worthy priesthood holder, and have a lot of kids. You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl. If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person.
But I'm wondering about one thing: Do I have cause to be scared out of my mind, or should I just take a chill pill. I have days when I feel like I don't want to do this anymore, but then I go through old pictures and letters and to remind myself that we had it figured out once, and we can figure it out again. For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. Looking back, I can say that when I received this answer to my prayers, I was at one of the most spiritually high moments of my life. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons.
If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush. Let's talk about kids. The ones who already had concerns start questioning. Because Mormons retain old-fashioned values, Mormon girls are raised in a traditional environment by good fathers. Its so good to be a part of this blog. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc.