Just like having children, you don't know what you have until you live it. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church. There are times where u will go to events, parties And even spending holidays without him. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. He was also a poor communicator and felt he didn't need to voice certain things, like 'I love you'. Bet as Joanna has said there are some things you should think carefully about в and this needs to be done with your head, not your heart. She didn't tell anyone because her own lack self worth and shame petrified her to do anything about it.
Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. I recall reading a talk from Elder Nelson in which he indicated that the church teaches general principles and does not spend time teaching exceptions to general principles. Today was his day off and not one word from him. Great payback for my support during residency and multiple moves.
You are a good person and she can see that. After enough years of this, you stop trying. At the very least, I might have tried to persuade my husband to pursue a different career, if only a less-demanding area of medicine. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship.
She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself. No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. I was born and raised in the LDS faith. Be open-minded; accept that different people have different beliefs, and that they do not always have to match with yours. That's what good wives do, right. So if you are caffeine junky, be sure that you can adjust to and accept your date's beliefs before going on a date. I think the secret to a successful marriage and a successful family is to respect each other's space and to enjoy all the good times no matter how trivial they are and to foucs on the positive aspects of the marriage an family life. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. Yes, those of us in the hospital work longer and harder days than most people with 9 to 5s, but we still have off days.