Its great to hear advice from those who know. At the very least, I might have tried to persuade my husband to pursue a different career, if only a less-demanding area of medicine. I married for companionship but now all I do is wait for him to stop working, to come home, to call me back, to have time, which is hardly ever. It interrupts meals, sleep, shopping trips, conversations, romantic time, and even fights. For reference we're both in our mids. They think highly enough of themselves, don't add to their ego. Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing.
Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. Basically this is different than dating a religious mainstream Christian. It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. When you are disappointed that he is called into the hospital, focus on what he is providing for someone in need. It is a demanding role being a wife to any man who works and has his own ambitions in the working world.
When you work this hard, you need to play hard. If all you are looking for is some non-serious dates to have a good time, you should be fine. I have no family nearby as I am from a different country.
Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships. It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. If you go to mormonthink. Many blessings to you. My sisters married to the temple served a mission etcв. I found that it worked just as well. I hope to be able to love nurses as I once did for many years.