I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants. I am sooooo proud of him but his career has broken me in a way I don't know if I can piece back together. Married to a Surgeon as well. That of course does not mean all eternal marriages should have been entered into or will succeed. If you go yourself, you'll see - those people are good people. I'm pointing this out because I don't know her and couldn't tell you what to expect.
Then a few months later he was not given time off for our daughter's pre-school graduation which was a big deal at the school especially since the school was closing. Spending a lifetime single is not something most people would choose to do, but fear of being forever single should never be a deciding factor in entering a marriage, lest serious problems go unaddressed before serious commitments are made. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. Be gentle with them and yourself. It should be our time with boys. I would never change my decision to marry him. I found that it worked just as well.
What if she absolutely despises sex. We strive to improve each other. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. I am also a pharmacist and a mother of two boys. Know there are a lot of Doctors who cheat though. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. I have never been your typical domestically skilled stay at home mom. Otherwise you risk having an awkward mix between dating and hanging out, which can be uncomfortable for those involved. A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first.
She sounds like she is worth the extra work. It's easy to forget why I chose to be with him in the first place. Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. I don't know what to do. For any woman who does not want to sacrifice her career goals…. Or should I just run and avoid a lifetime of heartbreak. Thanks for letting us know. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. I am a something male.