On top of this we are going to have our first child on April 12th and I feel very alone. I don't think you should abandon the relationship just because she is lds. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either. Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on. In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism. A good man is not defined by his religion and a great marriage is not defined by where it takes place. Who knows, but I think it was especially hard for the moms of young men.
Mormon chicks have way damaged views on human intimacy. Fortunately most of my immediate family has done better. This also means giving her something specific to do. When I come home, I don't necessarily want to be alone, I just need to do things that will calm or recharge me instead of things that will tire me out more. It may not seem like a big deal now, but eventually it will probably surface that at best, the church impacts and influences her behavior in almost every area, at worst, it dictates it. Do you schedule time in to talk and see each other. Also, I'm not involved with a doctor but I am an RN and spend quite a bit of time with them.
Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. There is no question this is the true church. And of course, everyone has a different experience.
The minute i start thinking too far ahead, i get overwhelmed Hello I am responding to the May 1 post. We met when I was 19 and have been together only the past 4 years but the love has never died. Log into your account. I have been a doctor's wife for almost 8 years. Edit - I just read through some of your other comments. I have no control over my schedule I'm sure you all remember those daysand it kills me to know that he has moved thousands of kilometers away from our home town with me so that I can do this residency. Everyone seems to think that I'm lucky to marry a doctor. That response made her very happy.