As a man who married a non-Mormon woman, my story has a slightly different view point, but it comes down to essentially the same principles. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. He will come to you. On top of this we are going to have our first child on April 12th and I feel very alone. I have seen love prevail over beliefs. How is that gonna work. Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. Single women who are educated, regardless of religion, are also going to find similar gender imbalances among their educated peers nowadays. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all. As Joanna said, marriage takes some work no matter what, but being married to your best friend, and listening to the spirit brings great blessings.
Like you, I didn't want to stress him out by giving him some sort of ultimatum or demands. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. Trust Building Exercises for Couples. I could draw some flip-art of a kiss on some post-it notes and send one a day. I was lucky with my TBM. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. Props to people who do.
I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. Sometimes it's easy to forget all the wonderful times we had together before he got into med school. Same goes for holidays-flip a coin.
I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. Yes I am married to a doctor also after being married for 5 yrs he decided to become a trama surgeon. I learned to read by reading the Book of Mormon. We raised 2 wonderful children who are now happy and successful adults. And no I would not pressure them to convert but as a Latter-day Saint I would pray for them to convert as I do for many people I know and love. Don't wait for it to eventually fall apart or hope that she will change.