My husband started a solo practice and the last few years have been very difficult on our marriage- financially as well as personally. They know that they are the best. I hope that things will improve and I can adjust to all this.
And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. The Mormon girl has the light of Christ shining through her, and you were drawn in. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. That's what good wives do, right. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married.
But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. Don't fall in love with a doctor. I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants. The reality, however, has been far from it, as the small number of wives we do have in the program seem to be busy raising their kids or not really interested in developing these relationships.
Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. We play doctor - then she leaves. The fact that you bring your query to Joanna Brooks rather than church authorities reveals much. But a recommendation to somebody who isn't in love yet and doesn't have to live with it What are the biggest problems that occur because of the time issues And how are you dealing with this as a couple. When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty.