He wants me to sit around while he does his stuff. They are exhausted, under tons of pressure, stressed, and expected to be studying hours after their long shifts. Getting Over a Breakup. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. Want to add to the discussion. Know her limits on substances. Today, I actually feel like I might literally go insane. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. My family says I should leave him….
It'll reinforce the wisdom of running from this disaster in the making. He can't just put his shoes on and go. Are days like this going to be normal. She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture. Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. I have been married to an er doctor for almost 19 years. I don't think you should abandon the relationship just because she is lds. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point.
If you are only after non-serious dates and spend a great time, you should be fine with this set up. Let them see the good in you, and believe that their son or daughter has found a good match. Now a basic overview of the gospel. I really hadn't considered a lot of the points people have brought up.
I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. I really fell that its time for me to move on. My boyfriend is in his second year of residency, and I'm still adjusting to this new situation. Life will chuck all sorts of bouncers at you. He doesn't like to complain or talk about work too much when we're together so it really helps to hear from another resident just how crazy it is.