I even had someone tell me I should know better than to marry a nomo. But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only. Hire out as many household chores as you can afford housekeeping, lawn care etc.
It's in the Mormon DNA. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. It is the greatest sadness of her life. You were a banker too. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. It seems like mormons in particular are even more crazy than the majority of crazy religious people, and the manipulation and treatment of people who wish to think for themselves and challenge their beliefs is really frightening. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. This sub is a great place to do that. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs.
Same goes for holidays-flip a coin. I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is. I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. Modest dressing is the best policy here. Why do we not talk about Heavenly Mother. He doted on me, and we had long skype conversations for the first few weeks. Not unless she thinks she can convert you. Plus there's a lot of things we didn't get taught growing up that are slowly coming out through the Internet. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion.
Dude just to summarize what I think is the majority of the comments. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. December 10, at 9: December 10, at 1: December 10, at 4: December 11, at 4: December 11, at 7: December 12, at 2: May God bless you. Several of the apostles have grown up in part member homes. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. Maybe about a year ago. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. Is there hope for us.