I have feeling you stopped pursuing anyone unlikely to go for you. Me and my husband has been married for almost 2 years now, and have been together for almost 12years. I honestly believe i need more support from him. How to Win Over a Guy. And Mormons were basically encouraged to marry other mormons.
Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband. Within a cultural group marriage is hard. It's scary to feel like you might never measure up to someone's expectations you love. Raising our children as believers is proving to be very tricky.
Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. Do you and your girlfriend have any kind of plan for how you're going to manage your relationship while you're both in residency. I married outside the church and have no regrets. He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community.
Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. All these are reasons to have some serious discussions. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. It means that before anything else, you have to be clear in saying that you want to date a Mormon girl. If not watch it. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. Yes, I have considered alternatives.