I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right. We still went on dates when we could, but it became less and less often. If you don't want your "golden ticket" of the good life, then give me your golden ticket. They must refrain not only from sex, but also passionate kissing or similar physical contact, or any act that arouses such feelings.
It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. That is a hard truth. He has spent years building his practice and is a busy, highly successful pediatric surgeon who is compassionate and respected by everybody, but I think by nature, it is hard for him to be empathetic or to relate to more personal issues. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either. Is there hope for us. It's alot to understand if not raised and taught in it specifically.
I do my best to keep busy during the day, school, cleaning, organizing, going to the gym and my daughter. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. But what if your girlfriend is Mormon, but not active in the Church. The Mormon youth must not date before Aside from that, the Church also discourages them from getting into a serious relationship before they consider getting married. In the end, God is a just God.
He sees all families being able to stay together. You won't know this until you do it and that is really important information to get before a marriage contract. Mormons can be pretty crazy without it.