He has become engrossed with pornography and having cybersex via cam with random women he meets in game rooms. But no one can move on to one of the 3 Kingdoms until they accept Christ and totally repent. A lot of Mormons think that good people will obviously recognize the truthfulness of the church and quickly join. You will have to bring her down to reality.
I feel to say, if you hear this, Amy, in time, it will all come round right. All these post confirming how doctors cheat all the time on their spouse kills me and my hope in a future with him. He is toning down his opinions and ocd ways a little, to be fair to him, I try to ignore the strong opinions, and him rearranging things. Girls aren't socially required to be missionaries, unlike men. The one I met was full of himself, a slob, and really not that great to women. Ma'am I really do thank you for being very blunt and quite honest in your writing about your life. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew.
Oh, boo hoo to me you say When you are made a promise and fall in love with a man who has a broken marriage, you begin to believe that one day you will be with him. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. To find another job, a more family oriented one, move to another more financially friendly state we are in California and have a fresh start. We were "forced" to discuss things such as our deepest goals, desires, priorities, and for us, possibly most importantly, how we show love and also perceive that we are being loved. I think you need to sit down and have a conversation with him about all of this, because that's truly the only way to get to the bottom of it and make a decision for yourself. Keep your power, girls, and keep the marriage egalitarian.
My new book is called, "Looking For: If he doesn't have time to pursue a relationship, and a medical resident usually doesn't, he shouldn't have done that. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. It really has been helpful. I do feel some of the pressure lifting off me in that I can start doing things for myself. I've been the main parent for 30 years. An important is doing this together. When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again.