My kids have run as far away from medicine as possible in terms of a career and my daughter only dates people who have balance in their lives. After skimming a lot of these comments it seems like many people have found that the most effective way of coping with their relationship with a doctor is to have low expectations or acknowledge that they will always be second. It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore. If so, then step away from the internet and go look him in the eyes and take his hands and start asking him all the questions you asked me. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world.
The extent of other physical activity depends on what you both want from the relationship, though in general the Mormon Church frowns on sexual contact even beyond intercourse. I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as were many of my peers. We are a welcoming community. I wouldn't just give up, but be wary. I google searched for support with tears running down my face. If you have any questions about Mormonism doctrine or things or other angles on what she says feel free to message me. The fact that you bring your query to Joanna Brooks rather than church authorities reveals much.
We have 2 school age children. He still writes to me telling me that until his last breath he will love me. If it is even possible, would it strengthen or weaken their ability to develop a personal relationship with their Heavenly Father. If your doctor husband says "impossible", ignore him. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic.
A good place to go is to a museum, hiking, or to a park. While it's true that Mormons are not one-dimensional and completely predictable, the odds of a successful relationship, given the OP's description of his girlfriend, are slim. In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think. They do exist and you deserve that. That was literally over years ago.