A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true. In areas with lots of single Mormons of dating and marriageable age, the Church has established singles wards. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. Disney gives them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. With localized medical news and in-language editions.
To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered. Really, I'm interested in this too. I would also say that this is the most stressful point in their lives. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. Thank you so much for your comment. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. My 2 younger children are entering middle school soon. It was a huge shock to me and caused a lot of worry on my part.
If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. We are very blessed. Every new set will see your man with fresh and hungry eyes as a potential golden contact. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple. I used to be religious when I was a kid. We have family prayer every day and read the scriptures occasionally. I know it will get better over time.
It's really somethi g to watch a person who is so self absorbed. If you are a believer and are willing to go, then well and good. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. Dress nicely, as the girl will appreciate the effort put into looking good for her, and encourage her to do the same. Know her limits on substances.