When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. All I can recommend, as a docs wife of nearly 30 years, is prayer or to book a few sessions with a psychologist. A forum for ex-mormons and others who have been affected by mormonism to share news, commentary, and comedy about the Mormon church. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. What if she absolutely despises sex. You have to make the decision as to what you want your home and your children to have in that home. When I think about it now it sounds absolutely mental and there is no way I would do it again. A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful.
Joanna в this is one of your best. She is going to dump you. That is speaking from my own relationship. They even refrain from tea and coffee. I have given up my career to stay with the kids and lonely is most cetainly my new reality. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it.
And for mormons, the goal is always a temple marriage and a marriage for the eternities. Of course they do. I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband. Hey, thanks for the info. I noticed that in Asia they care much more about language skills than here. Better navigate the business aspects of medicine and stay on top of the changing healthcare landscape. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you. Wife finds out, affair continues, but now he is the perfect husband, and she is the perfect wife.
What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. Drinkers tend to rely on drink before they can have fun. If your relationship is moving forward, or she suggests doing something more expensive, it is not inappropriate for her to help pay as well. I don't want a life of paranoia and loneliness but she is the person I want to be with and I want to ask her the most important question of my life this summer. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size. As a docs wife we have to deal with all sorts, and prayer has often been my lifeline. You all are strong for staying but I just don't see how it is possible long term to live like this. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed.