In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. God roots for both our teamsвthe hopeful screw-ups and the straights. I had to lobby and cry alot so I could bring my dog up, I am not sure how that will go because dogs have hair, need to go out, and the house might get messed up. I've told him multiple times that I don't care how much money he'll make, but one of his big things is that he wants to provide for me and his family in the future, with that being one of his main motivators. Toxic is the right word. I have recently seen too much of these false promises that people use to make others feel good. This guy is always busy. Even though it sounds like she is very Mormon, I feel that this will help her. What she taught is different from what the essays admit happened. Please start another thread and continue the conversation.
Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. I can say this. I will, and have said before that is is one of the worst decisions to marry a doctor also. It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. This is something that's very important to her, and it's difficult to be married to someone who doesn't share the same values. You join the LDS Church. Mormon women are more likely to date outside of the religion than men, but also very unlikely to convert to a different religion. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband.
Learn all you can. Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. All he says is that it wouldn't change the amount of time that he works. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me.
She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth. Because people who have problems with interfaith families must needs shortly become a thing of the past. The ex gets it all lol.